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Today I did a good deed.

Today I did a good deed.

I gave a lift to someone that it would have been easier to avoid. It’s no big deal I know but after dropping the person off I felt pretty good about myself.

I imagined my son, Connor, congratulating me – it’s the sort of thing he would have done without thinking.… Read the rest


Life, Love and Regret

In just 5 days my life has changed completely.

We all know Thunderbolts from the blue do happen. Six years ago I had a 15 year old son – in a matter of seconds he was gone. Our lives changed forever.… Read the rest



When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

You’ve probably heard that one before. It’s an old proverb meant to encourage optimism. And it’s fine except it’s limited. There is no such thing as shitade so I’m kinda stuck!

The point of this post is just a reminder that, against the general theme of this project, we all have bad days, and we all get down.… Read the rest


How to get to sleep

It’s four in the morning. You’ve been awake since you went to the toilet at two thirty. You’re up at five thirty for work. What’s the answer?

Well, for today, it’ probably too late. You’ll probably fall into a deep sleep about a half hour before your alarm goes off and from that point on-wards the day is a struggle.… Read the rest

Your life is Just a Computer Program

You’ve probably come across that idea before – like in the Matrix.

It’s been bandied around quite a bit and even respectable scientists are jumping on the bandwagon. After all, mathematics is the only tool they can use to come up with some of the more advanced theories about matter and the universe, and computers are the matter of mathematics.Read the rest


I stated out with nothing.
And I have most of it left!

It’s one of my favorite T-Shirt slogans – but it’s not quite true.  I started out with everything – I was lucky enough to be born into a loving family!… Read the rest

Double You

quick note: I had dream, Anna sneaked a bit of my pasty for herself. I was livid behaved like a spoilt brat. Accidentally-on purpose allowed kettle i was holding up so she could pass under, to drop and hit her on the head.… Read the rest


It’s natural to think you are separate from everything and everybody. You may need to think again. Foe example, if you think your body is separate from the air around it or the seat you are sat on then you may need to look a little deeper.… Read the rest